Most of the time, I feel pretty lucky. Luckily, being lucky is an actively passive state. It’s an attitude and the ability to see fortune in
many a' situations. Opportunities hide themselves in everyday, like clovers in a
field of grass... Unless you look for the individual pieces, all you
will see is green.
The book The Luck Factor studies what it means to be lucky. After 10 years of
research, the author found that to a large extent, people make their own good
and bad fortune—and that it is possible to enhance the amount of luck
that you encounter in life. He identifies four principles that
characterize “lucky people.”
1. They maximize chance
opportunities. Their ability to recognize and act upon opportunities
also makes them masters of creating chance opportunities.
2. They listen to their
intuition. They are hypersensitive to gut-reactions and do work to boost
those abilities, including meditation.
3. They expect luck. They have a mind-set that expects luck to happen which creates a sense of self-fulfilling prophecy.
4. They turn it around. They can see the positives in situations that are less than ideal.
While we cannot control the
things that happen, we can dictate the reactions in those
moments. So the next time I hop on the wrong train or the next time Erin misses her plane, we need to realize we were never meant to get to that destination in the first
place; we were meant to see something else at that moment.
When life begins happening
with you and not to you, consider yourself lucky.
xo
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